copperbadge:

whenflowersfade:

whatbethsays:

the other night i tried to make a curry and i got chilli burns all over my face, so i thought to myself ‘hang on, doesn’t milk soothe chilli burns? it does’ and i couldn’t google because i couldn’t see so i just had to blindly feel my way to the fridge and pour out a bowl of milk, and then plant my face in the bowl of milk, anyway at that point the rice cooker went off and triggered a power surge which turned my electricity off, which i didn’t notice at first because i had my face in a bowl of milk and when i did emerge from the dairy prison i thought i had gone blind with chilli burns. so no i don’t really cook much.

@copperbadge

I feel OP’s pain pretty hard. 

fearlessinger:

guernica:

itsagentromanoff:

Til the end of the line

#[softly] don’t #the last gif though the way he’s looking at Steve #it’s like he’s begging him to understand that it wasn’t him but it still was him #like he needs for Steve to see that The Winter Soldier is part of him #and he didn’t have a choice but he did it and he lives with that guilt and knowledge every day #and it’s also a little bit like he’s testing Steve a little #like saying ‘are you only helping me because you think I’m the same guy from before?’ #‘I’m not him and these things are a part of me they’re who I am now I need to own these things’
#‘can you still find me deserving of your loyalty when you realise it wasn’t two separate people it was just me’ #‘might not have been my choice but it was my hands that pulled the trigger or threw the knife or crashed the car’ #‘and it’s my eyes that watched them all die and it’s my mind that plays them over and over again’ #‘can you still love me knowing that?’ #but he needn’t worry #the answer from Steve is yes it’ll always be yes #there’s nothing Bucky could do of his own volition or as TWS that would ever see him unworthy of Steve’s love and loyalty
#lol bye I’ll see myself out @sebuckstianstan

The tragedy of this scene is that Steve isn’t allowed to articulate that answer. He says “it wasn’t you”, and when Bucky replies “but I did it”, he remains silent. 

Later, as they’re about to exit the plane, Steve seems to realize that he still needs to say something, and he brings up that memory from their time together before the war. It’s certainly better than nothing, and Bucky clearly appreciates it. But what does it really mean to Bucky that after he’s essentially stated: “the person I am now is the result of the things that were done to me, the things that I was made to do”,

the only response Steve can muster up

is “but remember when none of those things were part of you yet? Those were good times”.

For Steve, Bucky is worth it all, no matter what. But does Bucky know that? Does Bucky believe it? Or does he remember Steve asking him coldly “which Bucky am I talking to?”, smiling at him only when a memory of the distant past is brought up,

telling him “it wasn’t you”, yelling at Tony “it wasn’t him, it wasn’t him”, and see it as proof that Steve is in denial? That he’s risking everything he has in this future because he can’t let go of the hope that the original Bucky, somehow, can still be recovered intact, untainted and unchanged, from the wreckage that is the Bucky of now?

And after coming to this conclusion, does Bucky feel like he owes it to Steve to be what Steve wants? When he says “

until they figure out how to get this stuff out of my head”, does he just mean the triggers, or does he mean ALL of it? Does he expect to be cured, or does he expect to be reset?

aegipanomnicorn:

finnglas:

Gather round, children. Auntie Jules has a degree in psychology with a specialization in social psychology, and she doesn’t get to use it much these days, so she’s going to spread some knowledge.

We love saying representation matters. And we love pointing to people who belong to social minorities being encouraged by positive representation as the reason why it matters. And I’m here to tell you that they are only a part of why it matters.

The bigger part is schema.

Now a schema is just a fancy term for your brain’s autocomplete function. Basically, you’ve seen a certain pattern enough times that your brain completes the equation even when you have incomplete information.

One of the ways we learned about this was professional chess players vs. people who had no experience with chess.

If you take a chess board and you set it up according to a pattern that is common in chess playing (I’m one of those people who knows jack shit about chess), and you show it to both groups of people, and then you knock all the pieces off the board, the pro chess players will be able to return it to its prior state almost perfectly with no trouble, because they looked at it and they said, “Oh, this is the fifth move of XYZ Strategy, so these pieces would be here.”

The people who don’t know about chess are like, “Uh, I think one of the horses was over here, and maybe there was a castle over there?”

BUT, if you just put the pieces randomly on the board before you showed it to them, then the amateurs were more likely to have a higher rate of accuracy in returning the pieces to the board, because the pros are SO entrenched in their knowledge of strategy patterns that it impairs their ability to see what is actually there if it doesn’t match a pattern they already know.

Now some of y’all are smart enough to see where this is going already but hang on because I’m never gonna get to be a college professor so let me get my lecture on for a second.

Let’s say for a second that every movie and TV show on television ever shows black men who dress in loose white T-shirts and baggy pants as carrying guns 90% of the time, and when they get mad, they pull that gun out and wave it in some poor white woman’s face. I mean, sounds fake, right? But go with it.

Now let’s say that you’re out walking around in real life, and you see a black man wearing a white T-shirt and loose-fitting jeans. 

And let’s say he reaches for something in his pocket.

And let’s say you can’t see what he’s reaching for. Maybe it’s his wallet. Maybe it’s his cell phone or car keys. Maybe it’s a bag of Skittles.

But on TV and movies, every single time a black man in comfortable, casual clothes reaches for something you can’t see, it turns out to be a gun.

So you see this.

And your brain screams “GUN!!!” before he even comes up with anything. And chances are even if you SEE the cell phone, your brain will still think “GUN!!!” until he does something like put it up to his ear. (Unless you see the pattern of non-threatening black men more often than you see the narrative of them as a threat, in which case, the pattern you see more often will more likely take precedence in this situation.)

Do you see what I’m saying?

I’m saying that your brain is Google’s autocomplete for forms, and that if you type something into it enough, that is going to be what the function suggests to you as soon as you even click anywhere near a box in a form.

And our brains functioning this way has been a GREAT advantage for us as a species, because it means we learn. It means that we don’t have to think about things all the way through all the time. It saves us time in deciding how to react to something because the cues are already coded into our subconscious and we don’t have to process them consciously before we decide how to act.

But it also gets us into trouble. Did you know that people are more likely to take someone seriously if they’re wearing a white coat, like the kind medical doctors wear, or if they’re carrying a clipboard? Seriously, just those two visual cues, and someone is already on their way to believing what you tell them unless you break the script entirely and tell them something that goes against an even more deeply ingrained schema.

So what I’m saying is, representation is important, visibility is important, because it will eventually change the dominant schemas. It takes consistency, and it takes time, but eventually, the dominant narrative will change the dominant schema in people’s minds.

It’s why when everyone was complaining that same-sex marriage being legal wouldn’t really change anything for LGB people who weren’t in relationships, some people kept yelling that it was going to make a huge difference, over time, because it would contribute to the visibility of a narrative in which our relationships were normalized, not stigmatized. It would contribute to changing people’s schemas, and that would go a long way toward changing what they see as acceptable, as normal, and as a foregone conclusion.

So in conclusion: Representation is hugely important, because it’s probably one of the single biggest ways to change people’s behavior, by changing their subconscious perception.

(It is also why a 24-hour news cycle with emphasis on deconstructing every. single. moment. of violent crimes is SUCH A TERRIBLE SOCIETAL INFLUENCE, but that is a rant for another post.)

I love a good lecture.

Hover Notes or ‘Floating Boxes’in Ao3

mahotou:

yellowflicker09011996:

bisexualfelicity:

ozhawkauthor:

This is a fun option if you use, for example, phrases in other languages in your story. I often do, and this is a nice way to give translations without having to scroll to the end of the text, or putting them in the starting notes where people have to keep checking back – or where they spoiler the story!

HOWEVER. The drawback is that the floating boxes only work when a ‘mouse’ is ‘hovered’ over the marked text. They do NOT show up on tablet or phone screens, so you’ll still need to put a list of translations in the notes for readers using those devices.

Let’s have an example. 

“Qu’est ce que tu veux?”

Now if you speak French, you might know that means “What do you want?”

But not all of your readers will know that. So, you offer them a translation. And since the boxes don’t appear unless you hover directly above them, I usually add a Beginning Note to the chapter that reads something like this;

‘Hover over italicised foreign language text for translations! (Mobile and tablet users please see the Ending Notes)’

In HTML mode in Ao3, (if you try this in Rich Text mode you will get a horrible mess so don’t) the line with this example would appear as:

<p>“<em>Qu’est ce que tu veux?</em>”</p>

To add the floating box with the translation, you would select the words to be translated (that is, Qu’est ce que tu veux?) and paste in the following HTML.

<span title=“What do you want?”>Qu’est ce que tu veux?</span>

The whole line will now read:

<p>“<em> <span title=“What do you want?”>Qu’est ce que tu veux?</span> </em>”</p>

Review your work, hover over the part that requires translating, and you should see the following:

And you’re done!

I tend to set up a Word doc with all the <span> lines I want to use created in it, and then when the time comes, just copy/paste them into Ao3. Saves lots of time!

@yellowflicker09011996

Originally posted by gifsandmovies

@tie-dye-flag you might like this info. ^^

cptnjimmy:

sirgnomethegiant:

I love how after Spock gets beamed out of the canyon Bones was ready to fight all of their attackers with his fists. Like, who cares if they have fancy ships he’ll fight every single one of them with nothing more than his five o’clock shadow and grumpy attitude (ง •̀_•́)ง

#bones hates having to do dangerous things and having to physically go on new planets#and just being in space in general#but like in that moment he’s like you know what I don’t give a fuck#I’ve had enough of this alien shit for one day#this god damn planet hasn’t given my human-ass a single break#and I’ve been stuck travelling with this delusional vulcan spock man as my patient with no proper tools to take care of him#and now you just took him away so WHAT.IS.THE.POINT.#FIGHT ME#I’LL THROW ROCKS AT YOU IDC#I’LL USE MY BARE GEORGIA FISTS (via tothestartrek)